How to Build Extreme Willpower | David Goggins & Dr. Andrew Huberman
David Goggins and Dr. Andrew Huberman discuss the neuroscience of willpower and how pushing through challenges and doing what you don't want to do can strengthen a brain area known as the anterior midcingulate cortex.
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317 segments- 00:02I'm going to share a little neuroscience tidbit.
- 00:04Love it.
- 00:04But I think it's one that you'll appreciate.
- 00:07Most people don't know this,
- 00:09but there's a brain structure
- 00:11called the anterior midcingulate cortex,
- 00:13as we pointed out before, that's a noun, it's a name,
- 00:15it doesn't mean anything.
- 00:16Right. We could call it
- 00:17the cookie monster.
- 00:18Right.
- 00:20But what's interesting about this brain area
- 00:21is there's now a lot of data,
- 00:24in humans, not some mouse study,
- 00:27showing that when people do something they don't want to do,
- 00:31like add three hours of exercise per day or per week,
- 00:36or when people who are trying to diet and lose weight
- 00:39resist eating something.
- 00:40Right.
- 00:42When people do anything that they,
- 00:43and this is the important part,
- 00:44that they don't want to do,
- 00:46it's not about adding more work,
- 00:47it's about adding more work that you don't want to do.
- 00:50Yes.
- 00:51This brain area gets bigger.
- 00:52Yep.
- 00:53Now here's what's especially interesting
- 00:54about this brain area to me, and by the way,
- 00:56I'm only learning this recently
- 00:58because it's new data, but there's a lot of it.
- 01:01The anterior midcingulate cortex
- 01:04is smaller in obese people,
- 01:08it gets bigger when they diet.
- 01:10It's larger in athletes,
- 01:13it's especially large or grows larger
- 01:16in people that see themselves
- 01:19as challenged and overcome some challenge.
- 01:21Right.
- 01:23And in people that live a very long time,
- 01:28this area keeps its size.
- 01:31In many ways, scientists are starting to think
- 01:33of the anterior midcingulate cortex
- 01:35not just as one of the seats of willpower.
- 01:38Right.
- 01:39But perhaps actually the seat of the will to live.
- 01:43See, now we're talking.
- 01:45And when I learned about the anterior midcingulate cortex,
- 01:47I was like almost out of my seat.
- 01:49And I've been in the neuroscience game since I was 20.
- 01:51Now we're talking. And we're the same age.
- 01:52And I was so pumped
- 01:53'cause I've heard of the amygdala fear, prefrontal cortex,
- 01:56it's planning and action.
- 01:57I could tell you every brain area and every,
- 01:59I teach neuroanatomy to medical students.
- 02:01But when I started seeing the data
- 02:03on the anterior midcingulate cortex,
- 02:06I was like, whoa, this is interesting.
- 02:10Yep.
- 02:11And all the data points to the fact
- 02:13that we can build this area up.
- 02:15Yep.
- 02:16But that, as quickly as we build it up,
- 02:18if we don't continue to invest in things
- 02:20that are hard for us that we don't want to do,
- 02:23that's the part that feels so Goggin-esque.
- 02:26Yes, sir. To me,
- 02:27that we don't want to do,
- 02:28like if you love the ice bath,
- 02:30"Yeah, I love the ice bath,"
- 02:31and you go from one minute to 10 minutes, guess what?
- 02:34Your anterior midcingulate cortex did not grow.
- 02:36None.
- 02:36But if you hate the cold water,
- 02:39if you're afraid of drowning and you get into water
- 02:42and put your head under.
- 02:43Yep.
- 02:45Then your anterior mid, and survive,
- 02:47then the anterior midcingulate cortex gets bigger.
- 02:49But if you don't do it the next day,
- 02:51or if you do it the next day and you enjoy it
- 02:53because, hey, hey, I did it yesterday,
- 02:55woo-hoo, happy me, Merry Christmas,
- 02:57as you would say. That's right,
- 02:58Merry Christmas.
- 02:59Guess what?
- 03:00The anterior midcingulate cortex shrinks again.
- 03:02DAVID: Yep.
- 03:03To me, this is one of the most important discoveries
- 03:05that neuroscience has ever made
- 03:08because it's that I don't want to do something
- 03:11but do it anyway.
- 03:12That's right.
- 03:13That grows this area,
- 03:14and it's almost like I have a friend,
- 03:15he's been sober 30 years from alcohol,
- 03:18and he always says, you know,
- 03:19the amazing thing about addiction is there's a cure,
- 03:23the problem is it only works one day at a time.
- 03:25Yep.
- 03:26And so, you have to renew it every day.
- 03:27That's right.
- 03:28So the anterior midcingulate cortex to me,
- 03:30when I learned about it, two things went off in my head,
- 03:33whoa, this is super interesting,
- 03:34and two, I got to tell David Goggins about this.
- 03:36And I waited until now.
- 03:37I'm glad. To tell you
- 03:38because I felt like, well, for obvious reasons,
- 03:42I wanted to tell you and I wanted to tell you here.
- 03:44Well, I love that
- 03:45because that's how I've lived my entire life,
- 03:48I didn't know anything about that.
- 03:50But people go, "Man, you have such a strong will."
- 03:54It's something that you build, like I never forgot,
- 03:56I was on a podcast one time, and this dude goes,
- 03:59"You were blessed with a strong mind."
- 04:03Like, the hell you talking about
- 04:07I was blessed with a strong mind?
- 04:10That's something that you have to develop.
- 04:13You develop that over years, decades of suffering
- 04:18and going back into the suffer.
- 04:21That's why a lot of people who graduate Navy SEAL training,
- 04:28I talk about very openly all the time,
- 04:32a lot of guys don't want to go back into that water,
- 04:35don't want to go back into the hard stuff.
- 04:38Anything hard, anything hard in life,
- 04:41once you get through it, it's like you become a POW.
- 04:45Like, how many POWs you know want to go back to POW camp?
- 04:48None.
- 04:49When something sucks so bad in life, this is on this,
- 04:53that we're talking about now, very few people want to go back.
- 04:58They're happy they graduated.
- 05:02I realized I'm the same way, I don't want to go back.
- 05:07I have to go back, I must go back.
- 05:11Because that is exactly where
- 05:13all the knowledge of my life exists was back there
- 05:17and what exactly what you're talking about.
- 05:19Well, I didn't know anything about this,
- 05:21but how I grew a will was constantly doing these things,
- 05:26so now, it's just life.
- 05:30I wake up, while it still sucks, it's just life.
- 05:33You don't sit back and like, oh my God,
- 05:35like I have days I don't want to do it,
- 05:36but I know I'm going to do it.
- 05:39I know from years of just doing it, so that's beautiful.
- 05:44And this is why I came on here with you today,
- 05:46and I'm glad that you're talking about this
- 05:48because human beings need to hear this,
- 05:51they need to stop hearing these hacks on this and that,
- 05:56there's no fucking hack, bro,
- 05:58there's no fucking hack,
- 05:59yeah, you may this and that and saunas and this,
- 06:03all this shit that they, yeah, it's great.
- 06:06There is no fucking life hack.
- 06:09To grow that thing, how do you grow it?
- 06:12Do it, and do it, and do it and do it.
- 06:16That's the hack, the hack is going to fucking suck.
- 06:19And that's when I realized, that's when I realized.
- 06:22That's why I wanted to come on here today,
- 06:24I didn't want to come on here
- 06:25and talk about no fucking passion and purpose
- 06:28and how to get the fuck out of bed
- 06:30and how to hit a fucking alarm clock
- 06:31and all this catchphrase bullshit,
- 06:35'cause that wasn't how I lived, it wasn't how I lived.
- 06:38I lived, I woke up like every human being does
- 06:41and goes, "Fuck, man, I'm a fucking piece of shit today.
- 06:44How the hell is this going to work out for me?"
- 06:46And you fight that and you fight that,
- 06:49you don't override it, there's no override button.
- 06:52It's the conversation in your head.
- 06:55So how do you do that?
- 06:57We don't have enough of these conversations
- 06:59about the real conversation that every human being is having
- 07:03and they have no idea how to get out of it, but they do.
- 07:07It's that shit right there, man, you got to build your will.
- 07:11How do you build your will? Exactly what you said, man.
- 07:14Exactly what you said.
- 07:16Well, I feel like knowing the name of something,
- 07:19anterior midcingulate cortex
- 07:20doesn't fundamentally change us.
- 07:21But one thing I like about biology is that, willpower,
- 07:27if somebody feels they don't have it,
- 07:29feels like this thing that other people have.
- 07:31But everybody, unless they're brain damaged,
- 07:34like a hole through their head
- 07:36has two anterior midcingulate cortex,
- 07:39one on each side of their brain.
- 07:41Everyone has one, they have two.
- 07:43So I feel like it's just a question of opening the portal,
- 07:48and the portal, again, I'm going to say it 10 times
- 07:52and forgive me, is I think people go,
- 07:53"Oh, I do hard things, I do sets to failure,
- 07:56and then I do forced reps."
- 07:57I love training with weights, I love doing sets to failure,
- 08:00I even like forced reps, but guess what?
- 08:02I like forced reps, so I'll tell you,
- 08:04they don't build my anterior midcingulate cortex.
- 08:07Right.
- 08:08Because I like to do it.
- 08:08That's right.
- 08:09Anything you like to do
- 08:11is not going to enhance this aspect of willpower.
- 08:13And it seems so obvious once you hear it,
- 08:15you kind of go, "Oh yeah, of course."
- 08:17But I think you really close that loop for people
- 08:22when you share what you're sharing today
- 08:26and what you've shared elsewhere before as well,
- 08:27when you're trying to explain
- 08:28the friction is the critical ingredient.
- 08:30Right.
- 08:31And I think people think,
- 08:32oh, if it's effort, well, then, I'm getting better,
- 08:34that's part of it, necessary, but not sufficient,
- 08:37as we say in science.
- 08:38But the suck part, the being haunted, the stick,
- 08:44they're really unpleasant terms.
- 08:46Very.
- 08:47These are probably the most unpleasant terms
- 08:48we've ever used on this podcast.
- 08:50Very.
- 08:51Those are the levers, those are the gears.
- 08:55And without those, this thing that you're talking about,
- 08:58David Goggins as a verb.
- 09:00Right.
- 09:01You know, I sometimes make the joke, but it's not a joke.
- 09:04DAVID: Right.
- 09:04Goggins is a name and it's a verb.
- 09:08People go, "I'm going to Goggins that."
- 09:10Right. Right?
- 09:10But that's, I think, again, I'm not a psychologist,
- 09:14but I think that's what you're talking about.
- 09:15The stick, the friction, being haunted,
- 09:19it's the suck part that grows
- 09:21this anterior midcingulate cortex.
- 09:23So now you know why there's so many people
- 09:26that fail in this world to figure out their purpose,
- 09:32their purpose in life, where do I go?
- 09:34Because to grow that,
- 09:38while you may not look like me, how my daily life looks.
- 09:43It don't look fun,
- 09:46it don't look fun.
- 09:48So it's a choice that people have to make in life.
- 09:53But what's so funny about it is even the richest of rich,
- 09:56who have everything, they always ask me this question,
- 09:59"I feel like I'm missing something."
- 10:03I don't feel like I'm missing shit.
- 10:06I don't have what you all have,
- 10:09but you'll never in my life
- 10:11hear me tell you I'm missing something.
- 10:14And everybody is, they're missing this feeling.
- 10:19I found it, a long time ago,
- 10:22and I found it right there in that willpower thing.
- 10:25When you're nothing, nothing,
- 10:28and change yourself into something like me,
- 10:33you call it happiness, peace,
- 10:36whatever the fuck you want to call it,
- 10:40people are missing exactly what went on with David Goggins.
- 10:44"Why don't you smile?"
- 10:45I do, I do.
- 10:47But I figured something out,
- 10:49that's why you'll never hear me say,
- 10:52"I'm missing something."
- 10:53I found it years ago.
- 10:55You find it in the suck, you find it in the suck,
- 11:00and you find it repeatedly in the suck,
- 11:02to the point where you know exactly who you are.
- 11:05Most people are missing something
- 11:06because they don't know who they are,
- 11:10they never examine themselves,
- 11:12they've never done this experiment on themselves.
- 11:16The lab rat, we're all lab rats.
- 11:18But you are also the scientist.
- 11:21You create your own self.
- 11:24Most people are missing something
- 11:25'cause there's so much trapped in there.
- 11:29I don't even want to say potential,
- 11:30I think that word's used out too much too.
- 11:32There's so much in you that God
- 11:34or whoever the hell you believe in, or if you're a atheist,
- 11:37in you, that you have not unlocked,
- 11:40that you walk around with this gorgeous wife
- 11:42or great husband and all this money, you're like,
- 11:45"God, I feel like I'm missing something."
- 11:47Yeah, because it's about 75% of you
- 11:51is still fucking in there, still chained up,
- 11:55because you just didn't want to find your willpower,
- 11:58didn't want to find your soul, your will, your heart,
- 12:00your determination, your guts, your courage,
- 12:03and what that looks like, it looks scary,
- 12:05like your little scary lab I went in, scary.
- 12:09To wake up every day and say,
- 12:10"I'm stupid, but I want to figure out a way to be smarter,"
- 12:14versus saying, "Man, I just can't do that."
- 12:16So you limit this box,
- 12:19so your box becomes so small of things you can do.
- 12:22My box wasn't even a box,
- 12:25it was a fucking little like little pinhole.
- 12:28And then, through examining myself,
- 12:31getting some willpower, some courage,
- 12:34it became bigger than this table.
- 12:35But that's what we all do,
- 12:36that's why I wanted to come here today
- 12:37and talk to you about real shit.
- 12:39Not no fucking like hacks, there's no hacks, bro.
- 12:43It's you against you, you against you.
- 12:46And if you misunderstand that,
- 12:49you have a real problem, real problem.
- 12:52I can understand you misunderstand me
- 12:53running down the street, shirt off,
- 12:55"Fuck this, yeah, yeah," I can get it, I get it.
- 12:58If you misunderstand
- 12:59what I'm saying right now today, the problem is you,
- 13:04and you don't want to fix it.
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