The Sneaky Language Tricks Cults Use to Influence You | Amanda Montell | TED
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In the age of social media and wellness trends, the comments section is as good as a cult compound, says linguist and cultural commentator Amanda Montell. Us...
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- 00:03Greetings followers.
- 00:06And settle in.
- 00:08Because I'm about to share with you a true story
- 00:12about one of the most zealous cults in the world.
- 00:17The story takes place on the group's holiest day.
- 00:20Acolytes arrived at dawn,
- 00:22some having crossed oceans
- 00:24and sacrificed life savings in order to get there.
- 00:27They came bearing hand-beaded offerings
- 00:29inscribed with sacred numbers: 22, 13, 89.
- 00:35But this, my friends,
- 00:36is not the story of an apocalyptic sect on a faraway compound.
- 00:40No, this was a Taylor Swift concert.
- 00:43(Laughter)
- 00:45I said it.
- 00:46The talismans are friendship bracelets,
- 00:48the biblical books are known as eras,
- 00:50and the charismatic leader is a billionaire pop priestess
- 00:53who, let's be honest, could probably rule the free world
- 00:55if she really wanted to.
- 00:58Now, don't get me wrong.
- 00:59I'm a deep-dyed "Red" album girlie.
- 01:01I'm not here to call out Swifties as cult followers.
- 01:04No, I wouldn't dare.
- 01:07But I'm an author and a cultural commentator
- 01:10with a background in linguistics.
- 01:12And I’m here to share how we’re all susceptible to cult-ish thinking,
- 01:17for better and for worse.
- 01:19And our everyday vocabularies are evidence of our devotion.
- 01:23I'm here to share what to pay attention to,
- 01:26what to listen for,
- 01:27so that, as we move through these inevitably culty times,
- 01:30we can stay both enchanted and empowered.
- 01:35Now, my fascination with cults is personal.
- 01:37That's because of my dad.
- 01:39As a teenager, he was forced to join Synanon,
- 01:42a '70s California compound with matching overalls
- 01:45and a traumatizing truth-telling ritual called The Game.
- 01:49But my dad escaped,
- 01:51became a neuroscientist,
- 01:52and brought up a nosy kid
- 01:54who became obsessed with understanding
- 01:56how to identify cultish influence in everyday life.
- 02:01As I got older, I couldn't help but notice
- 02:04that the same language tactics that my dad described in Synanon
- 02:08could be found kind of everywhere.
- 02:10Like, in my high school theater program
- 02:13and in the wellness industry
- 02:15and on my social media feed.
- 02:18That's how I came to study the cultish spectrum,
- 02:20degrees of influence,
- 02:22none of which start out with LSD and robes,
- 02:25but instead, sneakily, with words.
- 02:29I want to point out three cultish language tactics
- 02:32to listen for in everyday life.
- 02:33The first is called the thought-terminating cliche.
- 02:36Coined in 1961 by the psychiatrist Robert Jay Lifton,
- 02:39thought-terminating cliches are zingy stack expressions
- 02:42that are easy to memorize, easy to repeat
- 02:45and aimed at shutting down independent thinking and questioning.
- 02:48So let's say you're a member of a group,
- 02:50and there's a rule that you want to push back against.
- 02:53You might get hit with a phrase like, "trust the process,"
- 02:56or "it's all in God's plan" to shut you down.
- 03:00In Synanon, the phrase "act as if"
- 03:02effectively meant pretend that you believe until you do.
- 03:06Today, in conspiracy theory-type groups,
- 03:09the phrase “do your research” basically means “stop asking me about mine.”
- 03:13(Laughter)
- 03:14Next, I want to talk about "us" versus "them" labels.
- 03:17In Synanon, defectors were called "splitees."
- 03:21Today, you’ve got your “sheeple,” your “NPCs,” your “industry plants.”
- 03:25When a label makes all of those people seem unilaterally evil and us superior,
- 03:31that's a red flag.
- 03:32And thirdly, I want to mention loaded language.
- 03:35Corporate synergistic visionaries.
- 03:37Wellness 5D consciousness.
- 03:39At first, emotionally charged buzzwords like this feel like enlightenment.
- 03:43Then one day you wake up
- 03:45and you realize you've completely surrendered your ability to talk and think
- 03:48for yourself.
- 03:50This language works because it plugs straight into our cognitive biases.
- 03:55These deeply ingrained decision-making shortcuts
- 03:58that developed in earlier human brains
- 04:00to help us process information from the world around us
- 04:02enough to survive it.
- 04:03But today, mental magic tricks like confirmation bias, the sunk cost fallacy,
- 04:09and the halo effect
- 04:10cause us to believe only the information we already agree with,
- 04:13double down on sketchy choices
- 04:15and worship mortal human beings we've never even met
- 04:18as all-knowing deities.
- 04:20This clash between our once useful cognitive biases
- 04:24and the information age
- 04:25is this phenomenon that I've been calling
- 04:27magical overthinking.
- 04:30And it's a problem
- 04:31because studies show that social media
- 04:33has damaged our mental health and our attention spans,
- 04:36all the while making cultish leaders mega accessible.
- 04:39Who needs compounds when you have comment sections?
- 04:44Now, I don't say this to freak anyone out.
- 04:47I'm just here to point out the difference between awe and indoctrination.
- 04:52And I want to leave us with a few tips to help us do that.
- 04:55First of all,
- 04:56when you find yourself in a space, even a digital one,
- 04:59where you feel really emotionally activated
- 05:01and you're using a lot of buzzwords
- 05:03that make you feel like you're part of a tribe,
- 05:05but you can't really define
- 05:06exactly what you're saying in plain English, or why,
- 05:09that's a sign to take a step back and consult other sources.
- 05:12Next, pay attention to exit costs.
- 05:15Healthy groups might make leaving feel awkward,
- 05:18but never apocalyptic or earth-shattering.
- 05:21And finally, we can use cult language for good.
- 05:24Rousing chants, rhyming mantras,
- 05:26they can be used to make true information catchy, too.
- 05:31I'm not here to take away anyone's friendship bracelets.
- 05:34We need community more now than ever.
- 05:37So I think living in this cultiest era of all time,
- 05:42the goal is not so much to be cult-proof,
- 05:45it's to be cult-literate.
- 05:49You follow?
- 05:50(Laughter)
- 05:51Thank you.
- 05:53(Applause)