Why You Need Emotional Discomfort | Ido Portal & Dr. Andrew Huberman
Ido Portal and Dr. Andrew Huberman discuss the cultivation of emotional and intellectual "nutriments," highlighting how practices such as thinking in complete sentences and prioritizing high-quality movement can enhance cognitive clarity, emotional resilience, and our overall sensory experience.
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Feeding Your Emotional State
- 00:00emotionally I don't feel well let's say
- 00:03what do I tell people what are you
- 00:05feeding yourself what is your emotional
- 00:07food
- 00:10emotional foods that are important that
- 00:12I bring into the practice of my students
- 00:14of myself one discomfort we've mentioned
- 00:16it it's important it's clear why
- 00:20emotional contradiction
- 00:23two
- 00:24I love you and I hate you for example
- 00:27when you work with boxing when When you
- 00:30let people have this physical and you
- 00:32can point at it. Look up. Watch what
- 00:34happened now.
- 00:37I love you and I hate you and I feel it.
- 00:40I can at the multistability.
- 00:43Another one is the aesthetic intensity
Tool: Aesthetic Intensity
- 00:46that we talked about bringing moments of
- 00:48awe of curiosity but also of melancholy
- 00:53or or many other intensities that are
- 00:55important.
- 00:57We've removed this from our lives, from
- 00:59our movies, from our books,
- 01:02definitely online,
- 01:05you know, as you pointed,
- 01:08we took it away. So, of course, we're
- 01:10not feeding ourselves those things.
- 01:12Restraint,
Tool: Restraint
- 01:15stimulating, and requiring restraint,
- 01:19very important quality.
- 01:21All those are practices for me. Those
- 01:24are nutrients that I want to feed my
- 01:26emotional state. The same thing I have
- 01:28for my intellectual faculty schema,
- 01:33the conceptual, the abstraction. How do
- 01:36I become smarter? What is thought? Is
- 01:38thought just this knee-jerk reactions,
- 01:41these levers, this associative quality?
- 01:45Is this thought? I refuse to accept it.
- 01:48That's not thought. So you're you're
- 01:50lucky uh you're not lucky. you you are
- 01:52right to refuse it. Uh we could talk
- 01:55about thoughts and what they are. I
- 01:56actually have a segment in my book. I'm
- 01:57not trying to advertise my book that's
- 01:59all about how to think about thinking so
- 02:01that you can literally control your
- 02:04thinking. Use thinking as a tool, not
- 02:07just have it be this like wherever you
- 02:09go some dynamic attractor states. The
- 02:12neuroscientist would say you just kind
- 02:13of fall like a clang association in a
- 02:15psychotic person.
- 02:16Yeah. is just they're they drop into a
- 02:19groove of of thought that is disjointed,
- 02:22makes no sense to the rest of us. Many
- 02:25people, including myself, sometimes we
- 02:27live in those modes of thought that are
- 02:29equally psychotic. We just don't express
- 02:32it. But they're psychotic because we're
- 02:34taking something as valuable as like a a
- 02:36beautiful vehicle and we're just kind of
- 02:39using it to like prop something up at
- 02:42the side of the house. my colleague Carl
Tool: Thinking in Complete Sentences
- 02:44Daiseroth, one of the best
- 02:46neuroscientists alive, maybe ever, um
- 02:50when he told me that every night after
- 02:52he put his five kids to sleep, you know,
- 02:56he would go and sit and force himself to
- 03:01think in complete sentences as a
- 03:04practice.
- 03:04I remember you told me before I was
- 03:07humbled and I thought, [laughter] "Oh,
- 03:09that is the that is hard. That is a
- 03:13smart person.
- 03:14He's a very smart person.
- 03:15That's an intelligent person.
- 03:16He's a very intelligent person.
- 03:18That sounds like it. It comes from that
- 03:20place of knowing like, you know, I never
- 03:23I I almost never truly think. It's rare.
- 03:28He taught himself to think.
- 03:30Yeah.
- 03:31Yeah.
- 03:32Without realizing it. Without realizing
- 03:34that you're just playing a different
- 03:35game in that sense that it's it's hard
- 03:38to develop it. And again what are the
- 03:40practices that we engage with you know
- 03:42we need those things nutrients so it's
- 03:46stomachs the emotional faculty is a
- 03:48stomach it's digestion and it asks you
- 03:51feed me
- 03:52and you got to take care of it there is
- 03:54metabolism involved there is a
- 03:55protection layer there is immunity to it
- 03:58right there is the marov boundary around
- 04:02it the membrane there is a model to it
- 04:05simulates things out but so it's also a
Movement & Athlete Standards
- 04:08very important way to look at it and of
- 04:10course the body movement nutrients. What
- 04:13is the quality of that? If you look at
- 04:15those gym practices, those
- 04:18weightlifting, they're of very very low
- 04:20quality in terms of movement. Every
- 04:23dancer will tell you that. Every athlete
- 04:26of a high level will tell you that.
- 04:28Where did we move to a ridiculous
- 04:30situation where our athletes are
- 04:33learning and are inspired by the fitness
- 04:36people instead of the fitness people be
- 04:40learning and be inspired by the the
- 04:42athletes, the the movement people?
- 04:44You're telling me that the athletes are
- 04:46paying attention to the fitness people?
- 04:48Yeah, of course.
- 04:48That seems crazy. Why?
- 04:50That's Don't you see it? Boxers training
- 04:53like fitness people. They're fitness
- 04:56athletes. They're not boxers these days.
- 04:58Why social media? Why? What is there
- 05:02approachable calls the attention?
Challenge of Attention
- 05:06I don't know why you brought me in
- 05:08today,
- 05:09but it might be one of the less times if
- 05:11not the last time as it becomes less and
- 05:15less
- 05:17what the attention calls for.
- 05:20I don't know. I think I believe that the
- 05:24the system that is human curiosity
- 05:28which drives a lot of social media not
- 05:30all of it. I do think that when you have
- 05:33a lot of low resolution stuff, the
- 05:37signal to noise becomes people,
- 05:41our senses, I almost said this earlier,
- 05:43but our sensory apparatus, whether or
- 05:45not it's our skin or our smell or our
- 05:47vision or our hearing, as you know, has
- 05:50levels of granularity. The receptive
- 05:52fields, as we call them, go from very
- 05:53fine to uh to very coarse. We love the
- 05:57feeling of a hug with somebody we love.
- 05:58We also love the feeling of a light
- 06:00caress,
- 06:02you know, or just a hand on ours. These
- 06:04things matter and they're part of our
- 06:06experience. And even without being aware
- 06:07of that desire for it, we have it's it's
- 06:10it's a drive. I think I do think people
- 06:13like to learn and they like to think.
- 06:16Some people perhaps not. They're lazy.
- 06:18But I believe that the sorts of things
- 06:20that you talk about and do the real
- 06:22effort like the movie that you showed
- 06:24earlier of you this incredible movie
- 06:27like the amount of care that went into
- 06:29that right now relatively brief it might
- 06:32be longer going forward the amount of
- 06:34care is what makes that high signal to
- 06:38noise.
- 06:39Thank you for that calming and and and
- 06:42positive words. They are important and
- 06:44they they touch my heart as well. And I
- 06:47know personally with you I feel this.
- 06:50I'm talking about this exposure. This is
- 06:54great exposure.
- 06:56It's not not possible anymore to talk
- 07:00about certain things and certain sizes.
- 07:04And I know you are a person who is
- 07:07challenged by that tremendously because
- 07:09you went huge and at the same time your
- 07:12original
- 07:14search
- 07:16is not going to serve that. This is not
- 07:19the motive. This is not the deep thing
- 07:21that drives you. So
- 07:25I'll always be available and and and
- 07:29free to come for a wonderful
- 07:30conversation with you. But I I I lament
- 07:33sometimes the situation with the masses
- 07:37and the public and where a lot of
- 07:39attention the the big viral things are
- 07:42going to in the sense that
- 07:46it's it's sad. It's it's very very
- 07:49pricey. It's very expensive.
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